It's not a fetish unless the female does the lifting? What about weight lifting? Or does it have to be a human the female lifts? But hey if that's what the guy is into then by all means. I don't see why that would make you a pervert.
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Fetishes are a consequence of infantile imprinting on caregivers. The root of the fetish would be that you were carried as an infant, as we all are. As Michael Vogel says, there is no reason to change a fetish unless it is somehow interfering with your life. If it is your primary sexuality then it is very difficult, but not impossible, to change or suppress. Depth psychology, the kind that explores your childhood and subconscious mind to find the root causes of the fetish, can do it, but it is time consuming, expensive, and dependent on finding the right therapist. This is because the fetish Behavioral reconditioning approaches probably will not work.
Lift and carry refers to a fetish in which an individual is aroused by being hoisted in the arms of another person. This can overlap with other fetishes such as cratolagnia and sthenolagnia. This could be a rare fetish, but it is difficult to get actual statistics. It is almost impossible to say when this type of fetish even emerged. Relevant to the discussion of strong women it takes another fascinating turn.
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